This week’s QUOTE FOR STRESS
“Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.” Anthony Robbins
I can’t live without you!!
Isn’t this so often the cry of young people newly in love. But take a moment to listen to those words – it’s all about ME. “I want you to make me feel fulfilled, to make me feel worthwhile about myself”! A relationship is more likely to last if you stop putting yourself first and rather see how you can better love your partner, what you can put into the relationship.
A relationship is like a bank account.
You can’t keep on withdrawing without making any deposits. You have to keep your bank account in the black if you want to avoid huge bank charges. Same with a relationship, make sure the emotional “bank account” is always in the black. That way you can make some “withdrawals” as you do when you’re self-centered and selfish. But make sure to put in a “whole lotta love” to keep the account healthy.You want to avoid those “huge bank overdraft charges!”
Anthony Robbins
Early in his career, Robbins learnt that “happiness and success in life are not the result of what we have, but rather of how we live. What we do with the things we have makes the biggest difference in the quality of life.” Robbins is an extremely successful “peak performance coach” and helps people “find breakthrough strategies and solutions for overcoming the problems that confront us all.”